Archive for January, 2011

Learning the Language:: Knyom jong reeun peesah Khmai

Ever since I first came to Cambodia I have been trying to learn the Cambodian (Khmai) language. There are many people living in the city here who get by more or less okay without much more than the basics but I am desperate to learn more and more so that I can communicate better and understand more of what’s going on around me. I am finding that it opens up a whole new world to life in Cambodia plus the people absolutely love it when you speak their language back to them! They’ll always smile and sometimes even fall over laughing…really.

There’s no easy way to learn a new language and I haven’t just stuck to one way of learning. I’ve had a tutor; I have lived in community where most people don’t speak English; I have listened a lot in the hope that I’ll pick up a new word or two but now I am enrolled at the Institute of Foreign Languages at the University in Phnom Penh. So every day except Friday I battle with the crazy morning rush to get to class by 7:30 am. It isn’t that close to my house so each day takes somewhere between 30 and 40 minutes, most of which I am battling road rage, dodging cars and motos (and police!) but it’s worth it when I leave my 2 hour lesson with a greater understanding and appreciation of the Khmai language.

The Khmer consonants. Each consonant also has a subscript and there's a bunch of vowels - the sound of each vowel changes depending on which consonant they're with

The highlight this week was my teacher – Mr Phos – explanation of how and when to use consonants and their subscripts in a word – I have never understood the usage of a subscript (or a leg as they are often called) you can see the ‘leg’ or each consonant in the picture below. Mr Phos’s analogy – The core consonants have inherent vowels and are split into two series (aw/ow), also set apart by red/black colour – the first (aw) represents the woman and the second (ow) represents the man. If a first series consonant (woman) is joined by a second series consonant (man) then it automatically comes under the first series consonant – practicing the art of ‘submission’ – the man submits to the woman. Well I loved this and it’s helped me to understand all these unusual rules.

The beauty of a life restored

A beautiful friend of mine in Cambodia and Relevant Magazine join together to promote awareness and show how the transforming and redemptive love of Jesus is touching broken lives in the darkest places and bringing hope and transformation. Check it out and click on the link below to read the full article:

Stephanie Wheeler loves spending time with her friends. She often sits in circles with them exchanging stories and making buttons, usually while drinking sweetened soymilk. While these hangouts look unexciting from a distance, the reality is far from typical. Her friends are lady boys—former male prostitutes who have escaped the Cambodian sex industry in hopes of a better future. Although Wheeler’s time with her friends appears casual, she is actually fighting for their lives.

Read the rest of the article at Relevant Magazine’s Reject Apathy site

New!


It’s 2011 and so I was thinking I would share what’s new for me in Cambodia; already I have been to a new years day Cambodian wedding extravaganza and witnessed two very special people marry with Cambodian and Western traditions and rituals, spent time with special friends and said goodbye to great guy from my church last night (Honglee) who has gone to live in American for 4 years to study.

I signed the contract on a new house today and feel so much relief after many hours driving around the city looking, hoping to find somewhere I felt comfortable in. Many things made it just a little challenging – my lack of fluency in khmai, being charged double rates for electricity because I’m white, construction (it’s everywhere), karaoke (avoid a place near karaoke at all costs!), security, lack of windows (Cambodian’s like it dark but I need light), avoiding a house/street where there’s dogs which will potentially chase and terrify you and there’s many more BUT I found somewhere which I think will be home and the landlords even seem to want to make life easier for me. They even dropped the price for me (thank you God!!) which is such an answer to prayer.

This week I went back to school to study Khmai so now 4 days a week I battle with the crazy 7am traffic and try to get to my 7:30 class on time where I study for 2 hours with Mr Phos! I’m ahead on all the grammar, vocab etc but they also start reading and writing from lesson 1 so I am starting at level 1. It’s the language department of a bigger University. The students in my class are mainly Korean, Chinese and Japanese with a couple of Westerners thrown in. I am learning new things already and I think it’s going to give me a deeper appreciation of language. I’m desperate to be able to communicate on more levels with my friends here and deepen relationships. I am confident that my Khmai is improving all the time and I love speaking it and I love to see how much it means to the people to speak their language.

I purchased a bicycle so now plan to get more exercise and learn the road rules for a bicycle (a cheap japanese import – photo up soon) in Phnom Penh (very different to driving a moto) if anyone knows the unwritten rules of the road here you’ll know that the bigger you are the more rights you have on the road. I love my bicycle – I even got to choose which seat, bell and basket I wanted so it’s truly unique.

I start a placement with TASK next week which I am really excited about and I am deeply grateful to them for giving me the space and environment to learn in. Starting next week also gives me time to get settled in my new home. Also my foot is still healing from the mugging andaccident last month so extra rest time is all good.

For me, I want this year to be about learning and growing; growing in faith, growing in intimacy with Jesus and being led by his spirit, learning to love sacrificially, developing deeper relationships and learning to love more than ever before.

Sabai chnam thmey (Happy New Year)

A belated Sus’dey Noel or…Happy Christmas & New Year

December 25th is just a regular day for most Cambodian’s, kids go to school, people go about their daily jobs, it’s just another day in “winter”. Cambodia is a Buddhist country but that doesn’t stop many Cambodian’s putting up tinsel, fake trees and twinkly lights (as I never posted this at Christmas I can tell you that all the tinsel trees are still up!!)

This is year I joint the staff from TASK for their Christmas staff trip or ‘staff picnic’ as they call it, at the beach singing around the tree on the beach, lucky dip and Carols in Khmer on the beach, many hours on the bus with very emo Cambodian music videos (Cambodian’s love their tragic love songs); Christmas parties with friends (even mince pies and mulled wine); Christmas eve carols at the Anglican church singing silent night by candlelight; sleepovers followed by pancakes Khmai style; brunch with a great bunch of friends while lazing on the balcony in a hammock; Celebrating Jesus and the meaning of Christmas with hundreds of Cambodians at Koh Pic, Diamond Island.